'' Brand you ...'' |
the most profound personal growth does not happen while reading a book or meditating on a mat ... it happens in the throes of conflict ... when you are angry, afraid, frustrated ... it happens when you are doing the same old thing over and over again, and suddenly realize that you have a choice...
|
'' We all live under the same sky ... but ... we don't all have the same horizon ...'' |
Charisma
|
You can't buy it ... you can't make it ... and for sure, you can't fake it ...
|
It was a sunny day in New York city, 1955, the streets flowed with traffic, the sidewalks bustled with busy people, and Marilyn Monroe wanted to prove a point, with a photographer in tow, she walked down into Grand Central Station. Though it was the middle of the week, and the platform was packed with people, not a single person noticed her, while she stood waiting for the train. |
'' It is true that charisma can make a person stand out for a moment .... but character sets a person apart for a lifetime ...'' (John Maxwell) |
What are the behaviors that create charisma? |
'' Shift to the next gear and accelerate ....'' (Amel Abada) |
'' Management is doing things right .... leadership is doing the right things''
|
|
'' Leading without ego ...'' |
What makes the leader? |
'' The life leading women who barely reads her name ...'' (true story) She is a war child, born in 1936, in a colonized country where the education was a luxury for most people in there. Her country has been through a long period of colonization.
132 years were more than enough to create special kind of people who learned every possible way to fight for their freedom. These people refused to be something different than who they are, They decided to keep their identity and be who they are. |
'' Leadership is largely a matter of paying attention ...'' |
|
Some of you may be familiar with Spencer Johnson’s ''Who Moved My Cheese?'' An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life (1998), a little book that tells the fable of mice in a maze who have differing approaches to dealing with the problem of their cheese being unceremoniously moved each day. The lesson of that book is that change is inevitable in life and in work situations (your job duties may change, you may be reassigned to a different project, you may end up with a different boss with vastly different expectations, and so on), and the best way to deal with change is not to question why things change or feel bad about change but instead to adapt and, in the words of a popular meme today: ''keep calm and carry on''
|
Malhotra’s book offers a new fable about mice in a maze that teaches us exactly the importance of asking these questions. Instead of merely searching for the moved cheese, the three protagonists Max, Zed, and Big are driven by other desires and questions. In other words, instead of merely reaching for the goals defined for them by others, they follow their own paths. Max seek to redesign the system in which he find himself and to understand who the system really benefits and why.
|
Morgan freeman:
|
Barack Obama:
|
Jennifer Aniston:
|
Nelson Mandela:
|
Simon Cowell:
|
Steve Jobs:
|
Nick Vujicic:
|
Oprah winfrey :
|
Elizabeth Gilbert:
|
Ellen Degeneres:
|
Bill Gates:
|
Simon Sinek:
|
Some people are born to be arrogant. raised to be arrogant, live to be arrogant ..... and without arrogance they lose the sense of worthiness .... (Amel Abada)
|
Arrogance ....
|
Humans are known for many bad habits that are harmful, Arrogance should be ranked among the worst. Some forms of arrogance are considered dysfunctional and close to a mental illness, while I would consider it as'' an impression of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or presumptuous claims''.
|
Evaluate your work experience ... |