Interested in discovering the deep significance of the human existence and transforming every painful moment of life into moment of victory ….
( Amel Abada )
”The moment where you feel you are missing life … could be the moment where you are deeply alive ”
( Amel Abada )
The deep significance of human existence …
Have you ever considered why God made you? Are you fulfilling the purpose of your existence? Everything on this earth is made for a reason. Whenever a thing loses its meaning, it is thrown away or left to disintegrate. A watch is made to tell time. It is well kept and maintained until it stops running and is irreparable. Then it is thrown out and a replacement is purchased.
What is the significance of your existence?
Find your true meaning …
” There is no substitute for finding true purpose ….”
The existence is not weird, it is not complicated and its significance is not hidden. The existence is clear, it is straightforward and deep inside every human being. We have all been created for a specific reason, the reason that we all spend most of our life trying to figure out what it could be.
Many of us are spending their life in almost a permanent state of dissatisfaction, where they find themselves caught into a ”cercle vicieux” of searching for their purpose.
Many of us are spending their life in almost a permanent state of dissatisfaction, where they find themselves caught into a ”cercle vicieux” of searching for their purpose.
You may always find it necessary to ask your self, what is my purpose? what am I created for? how can I find the reality of my creation and my existence? what is my direction in life? what is the goal that I want to achieve? ….
This is basically finding the outer purpose. What is more fundamental than the outer purpose is the inner purpose. Achieving the state of well being requires a big step beyond the permanent state of dissatisfaction.
This is basically finding the outer purpose. What is more fundamental than the outer purpose is the inner purpose. Achieving the state of well being requires a big step beyond the permanent state of dissatisfaction.
Finding your true purpose is finding out how to be here at this moment, your purpose is to align yourself fully with the present moment. You actually do not experience the future as future, because when the next moment you intend to live comes it will come as a present moment and not as future moment. and this is important …. Your dissatisfaction is your denial of your present moment,
which is the denial of life …. you are not honoring life, if you don’t honor this moment, be conscious about it and make it exist. your state of consciousness about the present determines what will be manifested in the future and when that happens that will just be now, it will simply be called this moment.
I -personally- have got a confession to make:
I came up to this reality after many years of denying my life and my self and even my existence by simply denying my present moment. I spent a whole decade of my life living between the past and the future without any notion of the present moment, which led me to the deepest state of dissatisfaction. I spent many years unconsciously attracting to myself that painful feeling of denying my existence by denying every moment in my life. In fact, the only true moment of your life is the present moment. This moment is your reality, it is the reality of your existence, it is the reality that allows you to impose on the world and let your inner voice say; in its highest volume: ”I am here , I exist” … In the past you existed … in the future you will exist, but now is the only moment that you truly exist.
I experienced a total disconnection due to that dissatisfaction state, I was disconnected from the place and the space and the time and the air and ground and the sounds and the smells and every living thing around me. I lived in a tight bubble named ”I wonna go back to my life …” forgetting that my true life is my present life, the life I am looking for is a history, and the life I am dreaming about does not exist yet and it may not exist all, or I may not be their when it comes and it will be somebody else’s life, but my true reality is my actual life.
It is sad when you discover after many years that you have missed the point of your existence.
Did I exist in that time, in that world, in that state, in that tight bubble?
I -personally- have got a confession to make:
I came up to this reality after many years of denying my life and my self and even my existence by simply denying my present moment. I spent a whole decade of my life living between the past and the future without any notion of the present moment, which led me to the deepest state of dissatisfaction. I spent many years unconsciously attracting to myself that painful feeling of denying my existence by denying every moment in my life. In fact, the only true moment of your life is the present moment. This moment is your reality, it is the reality of your existence, it is the reality that allows you to impose on the world and let your inner voice say; in its highest volume: ”I am here , I exist” … In the past you existed … in the future you will exist, but now is the only moment that you truly exist.
I experienced a total disconnection due to that dissatisfaction state, I was disconnected from the place and the space and the time and the air and ground and the sounds and the smells and every living thing around me. I lived in a tight bubble named ”I wonna go back to my life …” forgetting that my true life is my present life, the life I am looking for is a history, and the life I am dreaming about does not exist yet and it may not exist all, or I may not be their when it comes and it will be somebody else’s life, but my true reality is my actual life.
It is sad when you discover after many years that you have missed the point of your existence.
Did I exist in that time, in that world, in that state, in that tight bubble?
Surrender to the Now …
” When you become comfortable with uncertainty … infinite possibilities open up in your life… ”
The power of human connection ….
” Using your free will as human being with a higher connection …”
One of the interesting realities that fascinated me was to know about redwood trees.
Redwood tree can grow to 300 feet or more, compared to the tallest pine tree at 268 feet or the tallest tanoak at 162 feet — yet its root system is only 6 to 12 feet deep. Redwoods create the strength to withstand powerful winds and floods by extending their roots more than 50 feet from the trunk and living in groves where their roots can intertwine. Compared to modern humans that exist around for 200000 years, redwoods have been around for about 240 million years and the lesson they offer the humanity most people still cant get it.
what was interesting in this is the ”power of the connection”.
Redwood tree can grow to 300 feet or more, compared to the tallest pine tree at 268 feet or the tallest tanoak at 162 feet — yet its root system is only 6 to 12 feet deep. Redwoods create the strength to withstand powerful winds and floods by extending their roots more than 50 feet from the trunk and living in groves where their roots can intertwine. Compared to modern humans that exist around for 200000 years, redwoods have been around for about 240 million years and the lesson they offer the humanity most people still cant get it.
what was interesting in this is the ”power of the connection”.
” People with few social ties are two to three times more likely to suffer from major depression than people with strong social bonds …”
I define connection as the energy that exist between people when they feel seen, heard, loved and valued …. when they can give and receive, without judgement …. and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship…
People you are strongly connected to ….
Alhalaqua
Alhalaqua … is a name of group of people who impacted my life …
Give me my dignity...I deserve it !!!!
I n many places in the world people who are
economically and educationally disadvantaged
are subject to vulnerability and they usually
receive inhuman non-ethical treatment from others,
which leaves them emotionally injured. (Amel Abada)
I did not choose my social stratum …
have you chosen yours …???
have you chosen yours …???
Read this then … your life will never be the same again …
I did not choose to be born … did you?
I did not choose my name … did you?
I did not choose my gender … did you?
I did not choose my parents … did you?
I did not choose the place where to belong … did you?
I did not choose my skin color … did you?
I did not choose to be rich or poor … did you?
Everyone in this world is created for a reason, we are all created to fill a valuable place in this world, to complete the mission that is assigned to us and then leave.
Diversity is the reality of our world, I am different than who you are, and you are different than who I am, but in the end we both carry the heavy sense of worthiness inside us, Just by being both humans …
I dream … I feel … I cry … I think about the future and hope,
I make a wish at the end of each year, and dream about a better year.
Do you know that I feel the pain?!!! … yes
-surprizingly- I do …
yes I feel the physical pain, but I feel more the pain that is beyond the limits of my body, it is the chronic unbearable one …
it is the psychological pain, it reaches me in the deepest corner of my heart, it digs inside my soul and creates a narcissistic wound that doesn’t heal, it leaves my inner life scarred for life time, it creates an illness that has no remedy,
when simply get humiliated …
just because we are different … in different situations we allow ourselves to humiliate each other…
when you allow yourself to make me feel ashamed and foolish by injuring my dignity and my self respect, when you intend to ruin my existence …
my dignity is my existence … exactly as it is yours too,
you deserved 100% of your dignity, and I deserved 100% of mine when we were both first born, given a name and registered as a being.
Dignity is the way of expressing the idea that a being has an innate right to be valued, respected, and to receive ethical treatment.
We all need to notice that we live in a civilized modern world, where the human existence is highly valued.
In the modern context dignity can function as an extension of the
-era concepts of
Enlightenment
inherent
inalienable rights
Humiliation is known to be the act of violations of human dignity, it is the act that humiliates or diminishes the self-worth of a person or a group.
Acts of humiliation are context dependent but we normally have an intuitive understanding where such a violation occurs…
it could occur in a look.
As Schachter noted, “it has been generally assumed that a violation of human dignity can be recognized even if the abstract term cannot be defined. ‘I know it when I see it even if I cannot tell you what it is’”.
More generally, etymology of the word “humiliation” has a universal characteristic in the sense that in all languages the word involves “downward spatial orientation” in which “something or someone is pushed down and forcefully held there”.
This approach is common in judicial decisions where judges refer to violations of human dignity as injuries to people’s self-worth or their self-esteem.
Acts of humiliation are context dependent but we normally have an intuitive understanding where such a violation occurs…
it could occur in a look.
As Schachter noted, “it has been generally assumed that a violation of human dignity can be recognized even if the abstract term cannot be defined. ‘I know it when I see it even if I cannot tell you what it is’”.
More generally, etymology of the word “humiliation” has a universal characteristic in the sense that in all languages the word involves “downward spatial orientation” in which “something or someone is pushed down and forcefully held there”.
This approach is common in judicial decisions where judges refer to violations of human dignity as injuries to people’s self-worth or their self-esteem.
Violations of human dignity as degradation refer to acts that degrade the value of human beings. These are acts that, even if done by consent, convey a message that diminishes the importance or value of all human beings. They consist of practices that human beings should not be subjected to, regardless of whether subjective humiliation is involved. (Wikipedia, dignity)
Dignity imposed on humans, the moral requirement not only to avoid harming but to actively assist one another in achieving and maintaining a state of “well being”.
we should treat people as ends or goals in themselves, namely as having ultimate moral worth.
If you have been given the power and the authority over other people, you have
been privileged…
you should be grateful and thankful … it is not given to everybody …
it could easily be the other way round,
you have been privileged and chosen to protect the humanity and rise it up to the highest valuable state.
Humiliating others, is humiliating the humanity including yourself, and humiliating the one who chose you for that grace, God …
He will not regret it, because he knows you, but you will regret it because you have simply missed the point …
( written by Amel Abada, supported by official definitions)
it could easily be the other way round,
you have been privileged and chosen to protect the humanity and rise it up to the highest valuable state.
Humiliating others, is humiliating the humanity including yourself, and humiliating the one who chose you for that grace, God …
He will not regret it, because he knows you, but you will regret it because you have simply missed the point …
( written by Amel Abada, supported by official definitions)
Gratefulness and gratitude
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Saying thank you is more than a manner it is a spirituality...''
That breath you have just took is a gift …
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life, it turns what we have into enough, and more … It can turn a meal into feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
(Melody Beattie)
Gratitude is a powerful process of shifting your energy and bringing more of what you want into your life … Be grateful for what you already have, and you will attract more good things to your life and your existence … Love and gratitude can part seas … move mountains … and create miracles.
Being grateful you are seeking blessing.
When life seems the worse … god often send us little blessings that often go unnoticed because we are focused on our suffering. By acknowledging blessings that bring joy into your daily life you will experience more peace and feel closer to god.
(Melody Beattie)
Gratitude is a powerful process of shifting your energy and bringing more of what you want into your life … Be grateful for what you already have, and you will attract more good things to your life and your existence … Love and gratitude can part seas … move mountains … and create miracles.
Being grateful you are seeking blessing.
When life seems the worse … god often send us little blessings that often go unnoticed because we are focused on our suffering. By acknowledging blessings that bring joy into your daily life you will experience more peace and feel closer to god.
I am an amazing human being, living an incredible blessed life … I am worthy of all things wonderful, I grow and learn each day, I let go of regrets from the past as they hold me there and prevent me from experiencing the now.
I may have experienced true heartache in my lifetime but through that time I have discovered deep compassion. I do not feel the need to compete against anyone, or be better than anybody else, I aspire only to be a better person than I was yesterday.
I am grateful that I am given each new day to grow, learn and love.
I may have experienced true heartache in my lifetime but through that time I have discovered deep compassion. I do not feel the need to compete against anyone, or be better than anybody else, I aspire only to be a better person than I was yesterday.
I am grateful that I am given each new day to grow, learn and love.
Open mindedness and arrogance….
Can we teach open mindedness when arrogance is a culture?